Me and my ex started hanging out again but he has me confused about where I stand. Does he want to rekindle our relationship or is he playing me?
What Guys Said 1
He's only feeling you out to see if you'd be interested in reconciling. Don't get excited. it's only so he can get laid when he can't find someone else and he'll only be with you till he finds someone else. You're fucking up big time just talking to him
What Girls Said 1
I wouldn't worry about his response to his friends. It's not strange or uncommon for people to not want friends to be nosey and up in their business. He may want to just keep whatever is going between you two. It seems by his responses that he is in that phase where he is unsure of whether he truly wants to pursue something or let by gone's be by gone's. It's like he doesn't want to commit 100% but doesn't want let go either so typical half foot in the door situation.
You'll need to decide if you're OK with that or not. I personally say you only should allow a ex back into your life if they show 100% clear signs from day 1 to rekindle. Don't give a ex a chance unless they show clear commitment because otherwise, this type of situation tends to occur.
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