We got back together for all of two weeks. I thought we were "catching up", but he started doing all the things we used to... holding hands, making out, going to movies, he was so sweet, so loving, and he initiated the "I love yous".
Then he messaged me that he didn't want to hurt me again and that we shouldn't continue.
To say that I'm confused is the understatement of the century. So my question to you is, what if I ask him to give me some kind of closure? How would I go about asking, and is this a stupid thing to do?
Most Helpful Guy
Dont.. there isn't such thing as closure, even if you go and talk , he will awnser and more questions will pop up based on what both of you said, besides even if you have all these questions most likely when you see him in front of you , you gonna forget some of them and probably won't be able to say all you wanted to say , and when you leave you gonna be like " damn why did he say did or why didn't he say this?" just move on , block his ass , you gotta be harsh on yourself , won't be easy , but DO NOT go back to the same shit! if you go back to him what have you learned? yeah nothing..0
Most Helpful Girl
You will be running around in circles. There is no closure. Just ghost him and move on otherwise he will play with your feelings nonstop. Trust me I've been there, so just block all contact and move on. If he really really loves you and wants to be with you, he will prove it to you himself by being consistent with how he feels about your relationship.1