So me and my girl friend broke up last month because this guy stole her away from me. I love her and she still has some feelings for me, just at the moment she is confused. I really miss her and I can't throw away the memories we had together. I've told her I would do anything to get her back and she said "If you would do anything to get me back, you would have me by now." That made me think. I need to stop wallowing in self-pity and I need to prove myself that she should be with me. I'm getting her surprise flowers today with a love poem. What other things can I do to help?
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ive been in your ex's place before . its hard ... very hard . make sure you show her how much she really means to you . slide little notes under her door or ask her to come to the park with you or have a picnic . I know it might sound a little cheesie but it sometimes works on us . talk to her about the old times and how much you with things were the same . my old boyfriend won me back by telling some guys that were really bugging me to back off . that just really showed me how much he liked me . but if after a while it doesn't work , it might be smart idea to just let go . for most girls it drives us nuts to see our ex's move on if we still have feelings for them . just make sure you don't seem compleatly pathetic while trying to get her back . stay strong and a true man . (:
i wish you the best of luck !0