My ex and I dated for 2 years. He was very serious about the relationship and did talk about the future a lot. I am taking a gap year and then leaving for university and he was always so sure about LDR but then he changed his mind and we broke up mutually 6 weeks ago. He was very upset about it and broke down the day before we broke up saying he can't lose me. But we decided to stay friends.
A month after I asked him why he changed his mind and He said he had been thinking about it and spoke to his family too. He took the decision after thinking for two days. He answered my qs casually n told me he has moved on quite a bit n goes out a lot so it was easier for him and I am taking a gap year so thats why I am still stuck.
He even changed his mind to a patch up in the future saying its weird and is already crushing on another girl. I am so hurt because he is another person suddenly. He was so caring and loving and now suddenly this. I know I'm just 18 but I feel like I've lost everything and I am scared to let go because I feel like I'll never find a guy who is so nice to me and one I can be completely retarded like myself with. I feel so hopeless and worthless.
Most Helpful Guy
Yes there are plenty of nice guys out there, you are young and have time to find one too. I on the other hand am the nice guy you speak of, but I have the worst luck with women. I see all these women I like, and they always flock to the jerk, and the messed up part is here I am ten feet away, and they never even notice. I am a nice guy with good morals and values. I am real. I am thirty, and still have not met someone which really is a bummer. I cannot figure it out. I guess the saying may be true nice guys finish last. One thing of note, is that ten years ago I was a different person. I was that jerk guy, I partied a lot and only wanted to use women, and back then I got all sorts of women, but it was never really what I wanted deep inside I wanted something serious. So I changed my ways in hope that I would then meet a nice girl who would view me as a long time partner, but no luck. I must say though I would rather be alone the rest of my life knowing I am a good person, than be that jerk and never have anything real. I think you should do the same and just enjoy your life you are young and have years ahead of you, you will meet someone, as will I when the time is right.1
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think so... my luck with guys hasn't been the greatest either. I dated a guy for over 2 months. He would always talk about how much he cared about me. And was always messaging me. We "wanted" the same thing. Well, he made me believe he wanted what I wanted. Long story short everything was fine. And all of a sudden he's like "I've been thinking about our relationship, and I just don't think I have time for it anymore. so I think it would be best to end this now. You are a very lovely person and deserve someone who is going to give you time you deserve. " yeah it sucked really bad. Still after 3 months it still hurts like hell to think about it. Because I really REALLLY cared about this guy. (Oh and he did it through the snapchat messenger) 😕😔🙁😟😢0