Especially if you have been in a long term committed relationship. My boyfriend did this to me after 2 years together. its seriously the worst pain. no answers and worst of all everything seemed fine otherwise. i even asked him if he thought we were good , because he seemed a little down earlier that day. he said we were great and work was a little stressful. but then he dumps me without wanting to talk and he says he's really upset. i dont get it. and its been almost 3 weeks and still nothing. so heat broken.