We broke up several months ago because we had sex once about 1.5 years into the relationship before my parents found out and forced me to breakup because I broke the promise of saving myself for marriage. My boyfriend also pressured me after a year passed and no sex was happening so I gave in out of curiousity and fear I'd lose him. That didn't make a difference in the end.
I've been talking to my ex and asked him if there's a chance we could get back together and he said yes under the condition that I have sex with him today or tomorrow. This makes me really nervous and I'm not sure if I should follow through with it. Help?
Most Helpful Guy
Relationship are more than just sex, though sex is important. Why do you like this man? What draws you to him? What do you have in common? If sex is all you have that's all you'll never have and it will never be enough. You're of the age where you need to start making your own decisions; YOU are the only one who can live your life. You will be the one responsible for how it turns out. I wouldn't rush into anything you're not comfortable with; you have your whole life ahead of you; Please don't make a rash decision you may regret the rest of your life.2
Most Helpful Girl
Do not go against your own values for someone else's pleasure. Chances are he just wants sex and will leave you anyway. Someone who totally cared would not put that condition on you. Walk away from toxic relationships1