my ex boyfriend split up with me about a year and a half ago and I'm with someone else now, so why does it bother when I hear things about him and his girlfriend?
I so wish I could wish him the best of luck and be happy for him, but it hurts everything I hear things.
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Is any of these true?
1. You feel hurt and rejected because he left you and quickly moved on to some one else and you feel he loves her more than he ever did you?
2. You feel angry that you did so much for him and the relationship did not last?
3. You feel that even after moving on, he should have strong feelings for you and not love his current gf?
Most of the time we feel pained in a break up because we need to be in control and need to feel that our ex should not be able to move on and have a happy life without us. It makes us feel rejected because we depend on his / her approval to feel good.
If you depend only on yourself for your happiness while still being able to have a MUTUALLY satisfying relationship, then you will always be happy.0