To be completely honest, we were a good couple. We were good to each other, we had no arguments, we had fun. I'm wondering if I could try again when she settles her problems down.
And I know, I shouldn't make a decision on whether I should get back with her or not until I'm over her. In case I do decide to get back, can you guys and gals give me some advice and what to do to win her back?
Most Helpful Girl
Eh I would move on, if someone wants a break from you 99.9% of the time that just equals a break up. If she wanted to be w/you, no amount of stress or life issues would keep her from being w/you. More then likely she just doesn't want to be tied down. Waiting for a person to be ready is painful and I would suggest not waiting. I dated a guy for month before we went long distance, he gave me the same BS excuses and wanted me not to date other guys. He did not contact me for 3 months, in that time I found another guy who really cares for me. The 1st guy messaged me hoping to have another chance, I shut him down.
Most Helpful Guy
Man, you are suppose to make her problems easier to deal with and be emotionally supportive. Currently you were considered a problem or trouble.
Think about what you were not doing and what you were.
Did you respect her space, want to let her express herself, were you willing to offer a shoulder, etc, etc.
Think of what went wrong, figure out if you can correct that and talk to her about it.