me: I think we should break up. it's not working out anymore. And I honestly haven't been able to see you the same way after cheating on me.
her: oh no. I say when it's over not you. *she smiles creepy as she says it and I made myself laugh because I thought she was joking.
me: no but I'm serious. I think it's time for us to part ways. we've been going out for a few years already and I've already thought about it and I don't want to be together anymore.
*she starts crying and I get embarrassed because there's all these people walking with us. IT'S A PARK AFTER ALL. Maybe not the best place but that's irrelevant.
her: If you break up with me, I won't see any point in living anymore. I'll kill myself. please don't leave me.
*There's these girls that look at me and her as they are walking by and I just felt so guilty and like a as***e so I gave in to make her stop crying
me: okay nevermind.
her: you promise you'll never break up with me?
I tried staying quiet but she asked again and started being even louder. I was so annoyed so I gave in again. and she even made me say it.
Anyways, I tried it in a private matter and that was a whole lot worse. she started yelling at me and my little sister was in the house and I told her to keep it down because my little sister could hear and she said she didn't care. she left my house and came back and I couldn't just kick her out. so I let her stay and I've been trying the same method 4 times already and I don't want her to hurt herself or be all emotional during a college semester. She basically says she'll hurt herself if I break up with her and I'm a really nice person so I just stay with her because it makes her happy and I feel bad.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR READING.
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Break up with her. The reason she's acting suicidal has nothing to do with you. If it's not you, then something else will trigger her to act the exact same way. Nobody kills themselves as a direct result of a break up, otherwise we'd all be dead. She has other issues and you shouldn't blame yourself for her wanting to commit suicide. You're not the reason.1