How do you deal with disconnecting with your ex?
What Guys Said 2
You haven't gone back to square one since your breakup, you have kept one foot in square one the whole time. How do you expect to get over someone who hasn't left your life? More than that, someone that you keep on turning to and relying on.
Would you expect to be able to grieve for the loss of a relative who hadn't actually died and lived down the road? Would that seem achievable? Could you go to their funeral and cry it all out, knowing that they weren't gone?
A bit of an extreme example but it illustrates the point. If you want to get someone out of your head and your heart then you have to be brave enough to take them out of your life, at least for as long as it takes you to heal.
Never had an ex or a relationship but I think it would be tough to do.
What Girls Said 1
I took it hard at first, then called him up and told him I was engaged
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