I feel that there's no major hurt during the breakup. The reason why we broke up is because we feel that we need some time apart from each other to take a breather. he is currently in his last year of uni. he told me he wanted to focus on his studies, saying that his feelings for me is not as crazy as before (as in first few months of rs), and he feels confused. He's very focused with himself, that's what he said to me. Since he told me that, I decided to let him go and let him have some "me" time. None of us have broke the "no contact" period yet (but if he contacts me before 30days are up i will ignore him). He said he missed a bit of single life, just a BIT. Right now I am healing myself and try to enjoy and adapt single life and move on (hope he does too). SO back to the main qns: are my chances of getting ignored high if I send a message after we finished the "no contact" period? I would prefer a yes/no answer for this.