My ex and I were doing okay with the whole "let's just be friends" thing until recently. We had been texting on and off throughout the day and I didn't realize he ended up at his friend's house drinking until he started telling me how much he missed me and how stupid he was for breaking up with me.
It just caught me really off guard. He told me a couple of days ago how much he hated being single. It just seems like such weird timing to me. I don't know what to do. :/
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It has nothing to do with honesty. He just told you a bunch of things that he was afraid to tell you, because he didn't know how you would react. The alcohol made that fear go away, and that's why he spilled the beans on how he truly felt.
Doesn't happen with everyone. I'm a shy guy, but not in a self-conscious sense. I just have trouble talking to girls. Getting drunk doesn't help - it just makes me get MORE shy. It just makes me care less about what other people think.0