My ex and I dated for almost a year (half of it was long distance) then he broke up with me (kinda of a long story :( ) Anyway he said that he still wants to keep in contact with me but I've been missing him like crazy and I really want him back..but I don't want to seem like a lonely puppy following him and always contacting him. Your supposed to let him chase you..right?
Well..I don't know if I should text him saying 'hey! what's up?" or if I should let him text me..?
but what if he doesn't text me?
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Yeah, act on it and stop thinking about it...
For instance at this moment, I'm trying to help someone deal with her struggle of not talking to her ex. It's been about 4 months (I think), and she hasn't heard anything from him, but she's still thinking of contacting him. In away I think where all adults. It's not about putting forth these childish games anymore. It's about growing up, and putting forth some communication.
It's the same thing when you have problems with someone. You usually tell them, rather than thinking day, in and day out upon what to say. At that point it starts to eat at you. It's about questioning every little detail of what he may say, and what your response will be. I believe just saying something rather than thinking about it, is more real. At that point, it's who you are that's talking, it's coming from your heart. And I respect people that just go for it, rather than thinking of the factors. Isn't that what true love, a true person is? It's not about trying to find the best way to say something, but just saying what's on your mind, and what's in your heart, and at that point (life, god, higher-power) will give you what is being handed out. I kinda look at life as life's lessons. Some lessons may turn out bad, but in a sense. Those bad things always turn out for the best, because it's a leasson. Who says lessons have to be easy?
But overall act, and see what comes next. Sometimes acting upon what you feel will give you your answer. But the only way you get those answers is if you ask the question, and the only way to ask is to... act...
And to be honest, sometimes the answer we get isn't always great, sometimes we have to move on, because maybe that's not the best path for us... I hope, and pry for the best0