Most Helpful Guy
Nope. There is no easy way out on this. You need to bite the bullet to do what you have to do for the long term benefit of you and him.
Most Helpful Girl
Sounds like a toxic relationship and its only get worse. Sometimes a guy can change, but just think how much work you would have to put in to make him want to change. That can be exhausting for you and emotionally draining because your putting in all this energy to keep him around and he isn't doing the same for you. I have dealt with a guy like that and believe me , it only gets worse. I would just tell him straight out that you dont like the way that he treats you and its emotionally draining.. simple as that. And then move on. Now down the line, he may change and he may not. But its not something that you should keep going through on a daily basis.