I will try to be as short as I can.
My ex broke up with me recently because "you don't tell me about your hobbies. We never talk. We have nothing in common." (But I do he was just too high to remember.)
The next day he begs for me to take him back and tells everybody that he thinks I was "the one" and cries to all our friends (literally) even his mom sent me a message on Facebook.
I end up having to tell him that I can't take him back. Even though it broke my heart to do it I know he's no good for me. He says he wants to be friends and I say "I want to be friends but for now let's not communicate until we've healed."
Now he's parading around about how happy he is and messaging me on Facebook (after I asked him not to) saying "I'm ready to be friends. You're right we were no good for each other. Cute picture."
Is he for real or what? I just don't see the point of all this. Does anyone have any insight as to what this is about? Is he just trying to rub it in my face how much better off he is without me after he broke up with me?
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Well I tried to do this, and it didn't really work for me, basically he tries to pretend like he's perfectly fine without you, like everything is peachy keen, so you'll be like oooh he doesn't need me now we can be friends, but in truth he still really likes you, and if you were to fall for that it would allow him a chance to warm up to you again, I could be wrong, but who really knows..2