So randomly yesterday my boyfriend brought up that I'm weak and can't take anything without wanting to cry. I tried to stand up for myself and he asked "what do you think about yourself then?" I told him I never saw myself like that until he pointed it out, so he said "well how are you strong then?" Eventually he kept being mean and eventually said he'd have to break up with me if I didn't stop being so negative and said "it's really ducking hard to love you for who you really are". He aslo brought up that he doesn't like to give me oral because it reminds him of the scent of his dick, yet he always wants a bj. This came out of nowhere and he's never treated that way but I don't know what to do. I told him that he can't treat me that way but he kept saying I treat him bad.