Most Helpful Guy
You don't need to be with someone thatsabusive. That's not normal for guys to say that to their women, that's considered verbal abuse, it'll destroy you self esteem and self image, it will damage you internally and emotionally and nobody deserves that. Don't put up with it, because people that do that to others have no self respect for themselves either. He's a piece of shit and is trying to make you go down to his level to make himself feel better. Move on, you'll find someone much better than that, that will not verbally abuse you or abuse you in any other way. There are good men out there, but you can't find them if you're stuck with this guy.
Most Helpful Girl
Break up with him. He sounds like a TOTAL ass hole. Who the hell does something like that to someone they love. That sounds like manipulation to me. If he loved you, he would have sat down with you and talked to you about things that he doesn't like about you. He would also try his best to help you out and better yourself. That's what a good boyfriend would do.