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The fact is that yes, he might well improve and become the things that he should have been for you. That will only happen if he realises that he NEEDS to change and he gets off his butt and does something about that. As long as he does neither then he will just repeat the same mistakes.
He has the right to improve on his shortcomings and to find love, just as we all do. It's unfortunate that it won't be with you but sometimes we are just the wrong fit and sometimes it's entirely the wrong time for it to work. Just because he could improve with someone else doesn't mean that he could ever have improved with you. Again, it's about the right timing and the right fit.
Don't obsess about what he might and might not do or become. You are not with him anymore, it's over. You need to find peace with that, find closure and move on with your life. He's just one single man out of a world of men. He is neither the worst or the best. There is life beyond him as long as you don't give up on life.
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