My ex and split a little more than a month ago. He dumped me out of no where after a fight. Weve barely spoken since. However, yesterday a mutual friend tells me he's really upset over our break-up. He realizes he made a mistake, but he can't contact me because he thinks I've moved on and that maybe i hate him. I dont want to try to contact. Because when i tried in the past he ignored me. I haven't tried in 3 weeks.
should i extend the olive branch so to speak, since it seems he can't for whatever reason... or let it be?
Before this fight, we had a great relationship. He freaked out and went extreme.
Most Helpful Guy
Communication is the most important thing when it comes to a relationship. I would contact him. However I would not come across as too eager or willing to jump right back in. He did hurt you. I would act confident and open to talk but express your side and but as I said don't act eager to jump back in. Make him work for it a bit.1
Most Helpful Girl
I guess it depends on what you want. If you want the relationship, I say try again, one more time. But if he dumped you, then ghosted you and you just want to make peace, no get closure from yourself. Don't open up wounds unless you think they are stitchable... best of luck1