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Opinion on No Contact. How long/ will it work?
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When someone has decided that they don't want to be with you then they usually mean that with some sense of permanence, regardless of what they might say at the time. Some people do separate and get back together but those are really the minority of cases and even when they do get back together they often break up for good soon afterwards.
No contact is not about leaving a fixed time for the other person to realise that they miss you and want you back. That MAY happen but it's not the point. No contact is to allow you to move on without a constant reminder of the person. If they stay in your life but don't want you then it draws out the torture.
So, the answer is that no contact should be seen as long term, if not permanent. If someone is going to miss you then that will happen regardless of whether you are in touch or not. You can't force them to want you back, unfortunately. You have to just get on with your life on the basis that you are now single, so that you can get stuck into the healing. The chances are that you will have to face the healing process sooner or later.1
Dude.. You dated her for 3 years! If you dont know by now then how would we know?0
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