Most Helpful Guy
the feeling lonely with someone else is much much worse for some reason. I've heard that from others. It is painful. The other one can be cured with strength to get out and socialize, workout, talk, etc..
But when someone else is there, there is expectation of engagement and connection where you can't figure out how to make it work and it burns emotional strength like you wouldn't believe. It's terrible, the stress and strain. this is a no brainer to me..
. If you are in that scenario, I feel for you. I've talked with a guy in my mens group where he and his wife are in this scenario and it is misery and he shows it. I tried to explain how to get out of it.. but people have to take action and control when they are able, you can't "make a horse drink" so to speak.
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Most Helpful Girl
Being with someone who makes you feel invisible. I can find contentment on my own, even if I'm lonely , but I'd never find contentment with a guy who made me feel invisible. I'd feel even more lonely in that type of relationship than if I was single0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE