We broke up in June and I feel like we both took it pretty hard. In the end, breaking up was something that both of us needed. We both needed to work on ourselves and figure out whats best for us. It wasn't a bad breakup in the sense that, we "hate each others guts", more like... it would be too hard to remain friends after everything we've been through. My question is, should I send him a message around Christmas just wishing him well and hoping he has a good holidays? Or should I just avoid it all together? I still care and worry about him and I wanna make sure he's doing well but I also dont wanna open some old wounds...:( Help.
Most Helpful Guy
Yes if it won't hurt you, when he does not reply you. But to be free do so, and wish him all the best irrespective of his reply or not.0
Most Helpful Girl
U can. Maybe not remain friends friends. But distance friends that care for each other. I don't see anything wrong with that.
One thing is breaking up and another thing is "hating" that person only because of a breakup0