After the birth of my second child my wife has given up sex. It's been two years since the last time we have been together and we have had relation only 4 times in the 5 years before that. We have talked about it and all she says is that part of her life is over and I have to deal with it. But do I?
Most Helpful Girl
I am not sure her age, but when the children get older, and as she gets older this will change. Women usually do go through a period after children where sex is like just not important. A sexless marriage is very important to discuss. I know many men who do wonder outside of marriage for this reason. IT never makes it right. You have to have open dialogue with your spouse. Be honest as much as it hurts. Tell her your thoughts about straying if she can't come to be more open about sex between the two of you. You see if both parties in a marriage tend to have sex as a NON ISSUE then usually it works out. But when one wants sex, while the other does not. Someone is going to cheat. The cheating is all about lies and deception. You have to bring honesty into the equation or else you will hurt people. Best of Luck0
Most Helpful Guy
Damn, I'd say leave her, but you have two kids :/
But eventually no sex will make you miserable and will affect your relationship negatively. Obviously cheating is not ok, but you need sex, and so does she... I wouldn't be surprised if she's cheating.4