I'm not sure what really happened here. So me and this guy had mutual like for each other for almost four months now. So randomly he decided to get an attitude with me and unfriend me on Facebook. Five days ago we were kind of play arguing and then I felt disrespected bc I never thought a guy that I tried to spend time with would call me a hoe whether it was a joke or not that's equivalent to a woman calling a man a straight bitch, to me. So I told him he messed up and didn't talk to him for five days to prove a point. When I messaged him on the fifth day granted it maybe been a little petty but I called him a slut jawn. Then he was all "what do you want?" And I said "well if you have that attitude I guess I'll go back to not talking to you." Then he says I ignored him, which I don't see how I ignored him if we both didn't bother to text each other over this little five day span. That's what I told him and I inquired as to why he sounds a little upset "like a teenage girl". Then he said I tried to effeminate him and put him down, and I mind as well block him. I told him I don't put him down bc if I wanted to I would and second blocking sounds a bit drastic. Then I looked at Facebook and saw he unfriended me. Now I'm like okay... he's being stupid. My friend tried to say I was being mean and so he's ending it. Then I'm like wtf no one ends anything with me damn it. So is he ending it? I don't see how I was the wrong one?
Most Helpful Guy
pride comes before the fall... the bigger person will have had said their apologies before anything... heed my advise if you think friendship is worth preservation.. be quick to forgive, apologise and always let go of petty things coz true friends don't get offended when insulting each other.. if it oversteps a line talk about it instead.1
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Most Helpful Girl
He feels like he was being disrespected and he couldn't stand it. Some guys think it's ok for them to be rude but once you stand up for yourself they feel so hurt0