I've been secretly having an affair with a guy for 3 years, we got caught but we got caught just having a cup of coffee late in the evening. Everything got exposed. We denied the affair and said that we were just good friends. My husband beat him up. I sent him messages secretly asking as I needed to know if he was OK. He never responded He has broken away from me totally. He didn't even say goodbye. I have no closure and I can't seem to get past this. I feel stupid each time I make an excuse to speak to him. Last call he spoke nicely and said he would call me back in 10minutes but didn't. I need closure or else I seem to be going out my mind.
We had an affair, we got caught. Now he has no contact with me a since we got caught, no goodbyes, no closure?
How do you tell someone that thinks you're the love of their life that you don't think it's working? Should I just give up on an emotionally unavailable man? Have you ever been ghosted instead of getting broken up with? Are you a child of divorce? And do you love differently because of it? What have you learned from your last relationship?
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