Most Helpful Guy
You sound immature. The best revenge I got on my ex was moving the fuck on and not talking to her. Then running into her a year later only to find out she got chubby while I had put on a ridiculous amount of muscle and transformed my physique. That moment was ugh.. the most satisfying moment you could imagine. She cheated on me while I was in the military.. doesn't get much lower than that.
You trying to get revenge is pretty much telling him you are still hurt. That in itself insinuates that he still has an impact on you... which actually cultivates his ego.
My ego skyrockets when a girl starts going off on me lol. You know why? If i was a nobody who had no impact on her, then she wouldn't even put in the effort to try and hurt me/go off on me. I'm not worth her effort.
What a lot of guys don't realize is that if you have the ability to make a girl feel, whether that is good or bad, will always benefit the guy. It's a clear cut indication that she has emotion towards that guy. He has the ability to impact your emotions, thus giving him the power. Don't give him that.2
Most Helpful Girl
Wait. You broke up with him and you want revenge on him now?
Sorry, hate me but it's time to grow up kiddo. Yeah, people fuck you over but going back and trying to fuck them over when things have already ended is petty. The best revenge you can get on someone is living a better, more fulfilled life without them.1