So my ex girlfriend has her bday coming up (Jan. 1). She ended things claiming she wanted space/confused feelings for me. Since I have gone NC outside of saying hi to her if I pass her in the halls (we work in the same building). Since the breakup I have gone NC but she keeps tabs of my social media and tried to send some cryptic texts a few weeks ago.
My first instinct is to not text her happy bday but not sure if that seems petty or immature. Chances are if her bday wasn't on a popular holiday (new years) I wouldn't even remember and no text would be sent.
Figured I would get some feedback on what the best course of action is.
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly, just say happy new year and follow it up with happy birthday. Don't type a long ass para or sentence. Don't do it first thing in the morning though. And if she replies just send her a smiley emoji.0
Most Helpful Guy
I guess it's okay.0