I dumped the last girl I dated long-term by sending her a text message. We lived at her place, so I just picked a time where she was working, removed all my stuff, and those from her that I wanted, and moved out to a new apartment that I had secretly rented, that I had used for swinger parties 2 months beforehand. Is there any reason to make break-ups more uncomfortable then they have to be?
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well first off. you're a jerk. second of all that's a really crappy and cowardly thing to do. I don't care if it makes you feel uncomfortable grow some balls and handle it like a man. you dated this woman like a man should date a woman don't be a coward and end things via text msg.
third, nice swinger parties! really classy.. not! you will never get a selfrespecting female living the life you do. just because you dumped this girl doesn't mean you're better off.. she's better off. She's better off because she won't catch anything from you, she's better off because you don't realize how great of a person she was/could have been. Now, I don't know the whole situation but if you care so little about a human being that's low and that's something morally you have to deal with.
Lastly, breakups are uncomfortable because usually someone cares more than someone else. Usually they are uncomfortable because you do the adult thing and handle it like an adult especially if you are living together and you give someone closure that's the respectable thing to do. Not be a coward and move out when she's not around and send her a text msg.
Remember this, its lonely at the top when you have no one you really CARE about to share it with. You're what in your 30s its time to grow up and get out of your college mindset and be a MAN not a chicken!
If this offends you then think about how bad you just hurt her. Guys like you are the reason a lot of women get hurt and the few guys like you give ALL guys a bad name! Way to pull another crappy guy thing for your gender! KUDOS!11