Me and my ex broke up and got back together six months later, dated for four months and everything was great except I checked his emails and he broke up with me to "teach me that I can't look through people's stuff".
I hadn't contacted him after the break up but then he IMed me asking me to call him sometime. To me that seems like he's just being nice because if he really wanted to chat wouldn't HE CALL ME? I don't want to call him, because I think he should call me. He won't get back together unless he thinks I've learned my lesson WHICH I HAVE I will NEVER look through his stuff AGAIN! That wasn't the first time but it was definitely THE LAST FOR SURE! How do I show him that I have learned my lesson when he does try to contact me? And when will he finally call? It's been over a week.
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just be yurself. it sounds like the second breakup wasn't exactly a breakup. more of a time out kind of thing. you can't really show him you have learned yur lesson unless you construct some kind of situation where you don't look through stuff...id just say be yurself when you hang out with him. and who knows when he will call. that's where you might have to get the ball rolling1