Over the next couple of weeks I left her alone, she initiated convos here and there. The third week of our break up she told me that she's been going through a depression and I showed her that I was there for her. She came to my house on the 4th week and we cuddled and kissed all day. We even napped together. She mentioned to me that she's most comfortable around me and she loves and cares for me, but she wants her space to find out why she's feeling this way. She left that day and she stood by my side the next day when I had to take my mom to the hospital, she even called me "babe". A few days later, I called her and told her I'm fed up with this. Asked her to message me when she knows what she wants. We ran into each other on the weekend at a bar, she came and said hi to me and cried cuz she was happy to see me. I told her this break made me realize that I wanna fix things with your cousin, she was happy about that but She still wants her space.. she keeps telling me"let's have no expectations"... please help, what do I do? Is there a chance of us getting back?
Most Helpful Girl
if she want a space then give her a space but don't message or call her... she will get back to you... and when she will get back to you... be confident and tell her u have a choice to stay with me I gave to u a lot of , or u can just go and stop everything !
Most Helpful Guy
Im going through the same thing man. M ex and I had a great relationship, but something changed. I don't know what. I think I need to stop giving a fuck as much as I do about women. She got distant and acted like she was confused about how she felt about me... and then... I was the one to dump her because she said it seems like we are just friends. I wish she would call and beg me to take her back. I am definitely not going to be the one to do it. Its been 2 weeks of NC and although I miss her dearly, I refuse to reach out. I need to heal. If she comes back then so be it. I do not expect her to return. Sad but hey. My happiness is more important and I refuse to sit and wait, so Im going to keep having fun with my friends and date other girls. Your situation sounds better than mine since you see her and she calls you babe... but don't get too comfortable... give her space and be happy on your own. Let her miss you. Let her WANT to participate in the happiness that you built for yourself. You dont need her to be happy. Show her that.