I like this girl, and I want her to know I like her. But I don't want to straight up tell her. What kind of hints can I give her to let her know?
How do I let her know I like her?
What Girls Said 1
Here's a hint you can give her: "What begins with "I" and ends with, "like you?""
Honestly, hints can drive a girl batty, especially if you get nervous and back off temporarily, giving off mixed signals. Hints that aren't placed exactly right can come off as game-playing, which might turn her off of you.
The direct approach, while having the greatest risk, also has the least amount of unintended damage.0
What Guys Said 1
-Playfully tease her and banter with her. Treat her like your "bratty little sister", and don't be afraid to say some of the "meaner" things that come to mind. Bust on her like you would with a good guy friend. Girls usually respond well and have fun with this. It shows that you're confident and unafraid of her, which makes girls attracted to you.
-Smile every now and then, but not constantly. Smile especially when you're teasing her so she knows it's not just meanness. But don't smile all the time--let there be a little tension. It's a good thing.
-After the "fun" stuff, then comes the "deep" stuff. When you have her engaged and smiling (from the playful teasing, etc.), then it's time to "connect" with her. Ask her questions about the things she does and likes, and share a little info about yourself at the same time. At this point, it's like having a good conversation with a good friend.
-When you get on the subject of an activity you and her might have fun doing together, ask her out to do that specific thing. It can be as simple as a coffee date or seeing an exhibit at a museum. Physical activity, like walking, running, jogging, biking, etc. are good too--physical activity kicks a girl's hormones and emotions into high gear and she'll associate good feelings with you. In most cases, avoid first-dates like movies (where you can't talk much) or dinners (where you can end up talking TOO much).
-On the date, if she smiles and looks you in the eyes a lot, don't be afraid to touch her (in friendly ways, like on the shoulder), take her hand, or kiss her. Pushing past the nerves and doing it, when you sense the time is right, is always better than not doing it.
A summary of flirting moves you can try:
-Strong, but not too strong, eye contact (look away every now and then, so that she feels comfortable)
-Asking her questions and showing that you're interested in who she is
If she likes you, she'll respond in kind to those flirting moves and accept the date. Best of luck.0
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