Okay, here's the deal, I met a really nice guy 2yrs ago.
I changed schools, and not too long ago we've gotten in touch
again, and for the last 5 months, we've been catching up, and
we like each other a lot, we talk a lot..
we've went out a couple of times
I've met his fam..we're pretty much boyfriend/girlfriend in the process..
He's funny, but quiet and he keeps a lot to
himself. I, on the other hand, am very open with him, I tell him
almost everything. Before I met him
i was really depressed, fell in love and got my heart broken
from a previous relationship. And I guess now that I'm better
I've let my guard down, and let him in...and well, it feels
really weird how easily I'm letting him in.
I'm scared but I feel like he won't hurt me. But I know its inevitable, so I need help, getting over him.
Before I get hurt. I don't think he's ever fell in love before..again
he doesn't open up as much. But yeah, I am confident that
I'm going to end up getting hurt...so someone please help me.
Most Helpful Guy
I don't even know you but I want you to know that it sounds like you got yourself a good man you should allow yourself to trust him.
Getting hurt sucks it really does but if you live your life bracing yourself against the pain of a heartbreak you miss a whole lot of wonderful times and amazing people that could change your life forever.
Trust me I have experienced a broken heart, I have been cheated on, I have been abused. I still open up to the person I am in a relationship with and total strangers and despite the pain I have been through I still love and I still find happiness every day. You can't control how people respond to you but you can own yourself and take control of all these doubts and just say f*** it I deserve to love and be loved.1