When a girl asks you when you're coming back from a trip... isn't obvious that she wants to see you?
Or is that not direct enough?
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Personally, I've been known to be a bit dense. When I assumed a girl liked me I would tend to be disappointed, so I eventually just decided to ignore my ego and assume all women just wanted to be friends until proven otherwise.
I would be just a tad more direct. Something like "hey, when are you getting back? Do you want to (coffee/movie/whatever) when you get back.
Worst he can say is "no" ... at which point you can stop wasting your time on him and move on. =)1