We went out for about 9 months and he ended it randomly and it came as such a shock because I thought we were so in love. It's been 2 months. We had 1 month of NC and have had 2 chats to catch up/discuss then break up and I love talking to him but I do think they make me more sad but I don't know how to get over him otherwise. All my friends tell me I can do so much better and he's so insignificant but i just miss the hell out of him and feel so lonely and crave his attention like hell. In the relationship I didn't even want to be around him that much to be honest, it was always him all over me and now I'm a mess and want to be with him 24/7. I cannot stop thinking about him and there are days where I just cry because I wish things were how they were a year ago. I'm so sick of feeling sad as I'm only 17, can someone please help me? I can't exactly cut off contact with him because he's in my classes and he is at every party as well as tons of mutual friends that I'm with daily
Why can't I get over my ex?
What Guys Said 2
The reason you can't get over your ex is bcz you haven't found anyone else (better and worthit) and since you're only 17 then trust me you're gonna meet 'A lot' of guys, some would be nice and some would be jerks but the important thing is life carries the fuck on! and time heals everything so don't worry and don't give your ex much importance he's not worth it!1
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Honestly just sounds like you miss the attention he used to give you without giving much back in return before he broke it off. Just learn from how you could improve for any future relationships and learn to move on. You'll have to learn to fill that craving of attention from growing to appreciate yourself more and not needing validation, it'll help a lot.0
What Girls Said 1
Just give it a couple months hings will get better.0
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