He broke up with me on Friday then texted me at midnight last night, just saying "Happy birthday"... Happy? He's the one who made me miserable. I felt like replying with "Is this some kind of joke?" but I just left it.
I keep crying and don't know what to do. It hurts so much that someone could just leave me after over a year together, right before my birthday. The confusing part is he seemed really happy with me last week. I wish I never met him, wish I never loved him.
On his Christmas card to me, he even wrote that he'd like many more years together and that he "loves me loads"... Bullsh*t. He doesn't know how to love, it was all an act. Last year, he wasn't even there on my birthday, this year I get dumped.
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this year is not to sit around and think about how you got dumped... this year and your birthday is a new beginning and new occasion to start a new life.
every person you meet causes a change in you, whether you realize it or not. no relationship will ever be a waste of your time. It will help you evolve, help you grow into a wiser person. that’s what i call ‘experience.
the best thing you can do is learn a lesson from what happened in 2016 to avoid it happening again in the future 2017.
volunteer to work at a retirement home or share a meal with homeless... it helps you inner-self, makes you feel like you have done something good, worthwhile.
sorry for what happened+ happy birthday.