my boyfriend cheated on me.. He was at a concert and a girl who was flirting with his friend said goodbye and then kissed him.. He said he didn't provoke it but he didn't stop it either. 4 days after it happened he confessed and said I needed to find a new guy one whom could be there for me. He also said a bunch of contradictory statements.. It hasn't even been a week and many things have happened. One including him breaking down and crying to one of my friends.. In public...another one was venting to are mutual friend about how he f***ed up his life. He wants me back now.. Should I give him a second chance?
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If you feel he's genuinely sorry and would never do it again, then yeah I'd forgive him. Keep in mind that he probably sugar coated the situation a little about what happened with the girl too. Also keep in mind that he told you you should find a better guy. No guy who's truly in love tells a girl to find a better guy. it almost sounds as if he wanted you to move on at first but later changed his mind. I had a guy say something similar to me before and that's what he admitted he was doing.
Given all this information, it's completely your decision to decide if you can forgive and move on.0