So here it goes. He went home for Christmas to spend time with his parents. Now he is on vacation with his guy friends. So we video chat for a few hours then he sent me some pictures of him on the beach. Among those pictures is one specific picture-with him his ex his mom and his dad. I examined the picture and i realize that this picture was taken recently when he went home for Christmas with his parents.
i honestly feel there there is still something between them and i am intruding. he says there is noting but actions says otherwise. they spend so many time together. i was trying to be chilled about it but this picture ticked me off... they exercise together in the morning, he still fixes her car, he still talk to her mother and brother... she calls him everyday, she still goes over to his house... the hardest part is that i see his ex everyday at school...
Most Helpful Guy
Please think of it like this:
Somewhere out there there's a guy who would love you and make you happy and never even dream of betraying you and that guy is lonely or perhaps he's being circled by some degenerate lowlife females who will lure him into a bad relationship and cheat on him and make him afraid of women. He's suffering and he's in danger, just like you, and the two of you can't find each other because YOU'VE ALREADY GOT A BOYFRIEND!!!
This fucker you're with is taking up a slot that could go to somebody who isn't a degenerate lowlife who's going to pull your life in the wrong direction and cost you time and energy spent in a bullshit relationship.
You gotta fuckin' be more picky. Okay? Most girls are so picky about a guy's height and how much money he makes and how good his car is and a million other things and they don't seem to care if he's a liar or a cheater or a scumbag with no morals.
It's insane to watch it happen. Watch the way girls. . . set themselves up for misery and defeat and then turn around and want to blame all men.
That's the number one cause of good relationships failing, is because one or more people come into the new relationship with all this trauma and baggage and trust issues and insecurity from their previous bad relationships.
Most Helpful Girl
If actions says otherwise, why continue to contemplate? Dump him. There is obviously something going on if he keeps seeing his ex. That should not be happening. So unless they broken up on good terms, something isn't right with this if you feel it in your gut. What does you intuition tells you? No normal ex would be doing would they are doing. The signs are there. Let him go. He is obviously lying.