Most Helpful Guy
I dont really know what to tell you but I'm truly sorry that guy put you through that much pain, you dont deserve that, you deserve someone better that will treat you better, look at yourself as his loss and slowly loose the habit of checking out his shit, its time to move on.
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Most Helpful Girl
First this is due to the sex, and the fact you emotionally invested yourself in him so quickly. This is why you save yourself for marriage to have sex. You made this guy your spiritual husband and now he wants nothing to do with you. You should be the one deleting him and blocking him, getting rid of all the things he gave you and move on from him. Find a person who will wait for sex and leave jerks like him alone. They always throw marriage, kids, etc into those pipe dreams JUST to get into your pants. You need to go see a counselor asap. This is dangerous mentally and psychologically. Please do yourself a favor, for your sanity, GO GET HELP.
Because if you don't, then you can't use him as an excuse anymore. This is why premarital sex IS a sin, because your the product of that result. Trying to fill a void of emptiness you now have to heal. And trust me when I say, you will NEVER get it with somebody like him, who used you, abused your love and trust and tossed you away.