we dated for 2 and a half years and broke up about a year and a half ago. he was my first boyfriend and we even had plans for marriage and such. he was perfect, until he went on a vacation and cheated on me. then he dumped me, used me for sex, then blocked me and told me to get out of his life. then he unblocked me a bit after. but basically he is all i think about. i haven't seen him in about a year, but I'm still crazy about him. i am obsessed, i drive past his house sometimes, look at his profiles often, create fake accounts to follow him and his new girlfriend, look at his families profiles and his friends too to see if i can get any info on him... i really don't know what to do. any ideas?
Most Helpful Guy
I dont really know what to tell you but I'm truly sorry that guy put you through that much pain, you dont deserve that, you deserve someone better that will treat you better, look at yourself as his loss and slowly loose the habit of checking out his shit, its time to move on.1
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Most Helpful Girl
First this is due to the sex, and the fact you emotionally invested yourself in him so quickly. This is why you save yourself for marriage to have sex. You made this guy your spiritual husband and now he wants nothing to do with you. You should be the one deleting him and blocking him, getting rid of all the things he gave you and move on from him. Find a person who will wait for sex and leave jerks like him alone. They always throw marriage, kids, etc into those pipe dreams JUST to get into your pants. You need to go see a counselor asap. This is dangerous mentally and psychologically. Please do yourself a favor, for your sanity, GO GET HELP.
Because if you don't, then you can't use him as an excuse anymore. This is why premarital sex IS a sin, because your the product of that result. Trying to fill a void of emptiness you now have to heal. And trust me when I say, you will NEVER get it with somebody like him, who used you, abused your love and trust and tossed you away.1