She still checks my social media and tries to tag me in photos, etc.
Reason why I am posting:
After all of the crap I have endured the past few months I have mostly focused on myself and getting better. I have lost weight, had a busy social calendar, etc.
Last night I was bored and couldn't fall asleep so I decided to boot up my tinder app. And I notice one of the girls is kinda cute, I didn't realize until the third picture that it was actually my ex (she used older pics which is why I didn't notice her at first).
I had a rush of anxiety when I realized this and quickly swiped left since I am not interested in her anymore (especially after the way she has handled things post-breakup).
But my question is, why did I let this get to me? It's just tinder? And more importantly, I should be happy she is going on a site like that so she stops keeping tabs on me. And selfishly hoping she does meet some guy on there because she will face the harsh reality of most guys on that app are just trying to get laid. And I know I am saying this even though I have the app, I have since deleted it since I have literally had 0 luck with it.
So like I said, why am I letting this get to me so much? Does this mean I am not over her?