If I am "dating" a guy who says he can't commit to a relationship because he is moving abroad for two years, is it a reason or an excuse?! If he really wanted to be with me, would he? Bear in mind, I am in England, and in 3 months, he may move to NYC. I have already put a couple of questions on this site regarding the same thing. But I am trying to simplify it to get some answers! He also was in a 4 year relationship that ended not long before he met me. A lot of things he says or does makes it seem like he's in to me, but other times, he makes no sense.
Any words of advice for this very complicated situation. A friend of mine also told me I should tell him I am in love with him before he leaves. But this friend likes me so I am not sure
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The situation makes sense. You're young, he's moving away for a long time and he also just got out of a long relationship. The guy probably wants to experience life no strings attached. Long distance relationships are hard, and maybe if you 2 were older and had done the single thing for longer, he'd be into it. But as of now I can't hardly blame the guy for not wanting to at the moment. Don't take it as a personal blow though. You could be the most amazing girl he's come across thus far and he probably still wouldn't do it considering the age/distance. If it was meant to happen it will.0