Most Helpful Girl
First boyfriend: he was insecure and ended up lying about important things at the beginning of the relationship. I forgave him thinking he just made a mistake. He lied to me again and cheated on me.
Second boyfriend: we didn't have much in common and were too different. We thought "opposites attract", and it was true... but attraction is not enough to keep a healthy relationship in the long term.
Third boyfriend: too egocentric, everything was about him. He had a lot of virtues and I thought he would change with time... He would take me more into consideration, but he kept being selfish.
Fourth boyfriend: he was too emotionally attached from the very beginning and complained about me not dedicating him enough time... I ended up spending more time with him and stop dedicating time to my own things (studies, etc.). Once he got used to my constant presence, he left me.
Basically, I had a poor taste on men. I didn't really know what I was looking for in a man, so I dated a lot of people just to find out what I wanted. And I always thought "they will change". I also got into those relationships too fast without properly knowing them. In my personal case, I would say that the red flags with me was my insecurity which also made me more dramatic and jealous.
Most Helpful Guy
Hmm definitely when there was a cock inside my first girlfriends pussy that wasn't mine... maybe red flag? can't be sure though.
When she becomes annoyed with everything you do (not just one week a month) and edgy.
When she disrespects you.
When she plays games
When she ignores
When she hides her phone all sneaky like... even when you are not caring.
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