I was talking to a Woman at work who has broken at least two of the hearts of fellow co-workers in the past few months. She didn't do it on purpose just guys getting too controlling too fast, which leads me to pose the question to you.
Most Helpful Girl
She was my former dorm mate back in college. There was this guy who had a huge crush on her and he confessed that he likes her through drunk chatting her on facebook. Then when she shared it with me, I secretly messaged the guy telling him my deepest thanks because my friend has insecurity issues... then I was kind of backstabbing my friend when she was asking me if I was talking to the guy but in reality I was helping the guy to make my room mate 'fall' or 'like' him by convincing her & giving him more tips on how to win her heart. But unfortunately, you cannot teach your heart how to like someone so I ended up confessing to my friend about the plan I had behind her back. And it broke her heart because she TRUSTED me that I wasn't doing anything against her. After that we were okay. But I honestly felt guilty after that incident promising her that I won't do it again & won't contact the guy anymore.1
Most Helpful Guy
It's weird I remember this time in like 7th grade we were sitting in some school assembly and here sit these giggly girls, I look over and there's one hiding behind another and blushing saying no no don't say it, well she did and asked if I would go out with her because she thinks I'm cute and really liked me. I was with my buddies and they rag on me if I went out with her, so I said no gross no way. The girl breaks into tears and runs out the gym. I sat there like oh crap, what happened? She avoided me until graduation from high school.. I guess she still holds some grudge toward me, I seen her a few weeks at Sam's Club and she rolled her eyes and went other way when she seen me walk in the door. This happened like in 1995. Would somebody hold a grudge that long?1