I was with this guy for about 1 year, in that time, he threatened to break up with me a lot, cheated on me with one of my best friends, and totally controlled me. I was not aloud any male friends and I wasn't aloud to text anyone without him knowing who it was. He turned me against all of my friends, called me names, and flirted with other girls. But he has charm, which he can switch on and off, and he knows I fall for it. He added me on Facebook and started being friendly, now he wants me back. What the f*ck do I do?!?!?! :'(
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i think deep down you already know the answer.. you've already taken the list approach..maybe it will help you to read the list again and see which is longer?
BAD - threatened to break up with you, cheated on you, controlled you, was emotionally and verbally abusive, disrespectful, turned your friends against you (you need better friends)
GOOD - is charming and has the ability to turn it on or off... wow...
the decision is clear.. forget about the douche... unfriend him... cut him out of your life.. OF COURSE unless you want and are glad to accept everything on the bad list ... again.. and again... and again...
up to you darling.. its your life.. your choice... id recommend you make a decision that makes you happy2