Its been almost 2.5 months since me girlfriend has left me for the second time. To be honest the longest we have gone with out talking to each other has been 2 weeks. Either family problems occur and we contact each other to let them know. Or as in one case I found out she had begun dating another guy, were we went off on a bit of a rant to each other. Or we just got bored and started to talk to each other. Yet she has told me multi times on how she knows I need my space. Now there are days were I don't mind talking to her because it helps when I miss her, I don't openly say it, we just catch up with each others lives but don't go into our personal lives.
But there are days like today where I just have this hurt in my chest where my heart is. I don't understand why it hurts, I just want it to stop. I work 40 hour weeks, been invited to hang around with friends and even when I hang around them I still hurt inside. What can make this go away?
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It sounds like heartburn; Peptobismol or Tums could probably fix it. Of course, it's probably not a physical hurt but an emotional hurt. You miss her and now you can't have her. She made you feel special and no one has ever made you feel that way. Maybe you loved her and did not realize this. The solution is to move on. The wound may never close, but you can control how you feel. The only problem is you. Deep down in your subconscious, you want her back, and you don't want to move on. The fact is she already has. Two and half months and no inclination of her wanting you back demonstrates this. You're only hurting yourself if you continue to go down this path. You control your feelings. You can continue to mope around, or you can say I don't need her. I'm going to find someone else! I deserve someone better than her!0