Most Helpful Guy
A friend of mine told me a while back that if you respect this person on a basic human level (even if you no longer love/want to be in a relationship with them) then they would probably prefer you break up with them, rather than stay in a relationship that you've long since abandoned from a romantic standpoint.
From then, it took me a week and I was out. I did it IN PERSON (see: basic human respect, above), went in with a plan and stuck to it.
Most Helpful Girl
Umm I felt like no matter what I did it was never good enough for him. He was more then happy to linger around the mistakes I did, but didn't want any bit of it when something concerned me about him. I felt like I was jumping through hoops to satisfy he's needs. I apologised sincerely for things that made him upset. Things that made me worry sick about him in the first place, I had to apologise for.
I felt neglected (emotionally) from the relationship. I felt like the relationship aspect was no longer there. I was really unhappy. All I wanted was him to consider me in the situation. I just wanted him to be there for me emotionally like I was for him. He made it hard to want to reconcile. Once it was all about him, I just wanted to not be in it anymore. So I left
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