Has anyone ever had an ex come back when they were the one to end it? I want to keep some hope but I know I need to move on?

Me and my ex met at the start of Dec and we hit it off straight away! He stayed with me for a few days when me met, went on a date and he met my family (his idea). I was invited to his house that he shares with his mum for Boxing Day day dinner with some of his family. We said I love you to each other and it was going so great! We were inseparable. Spent over two weeks together and NYE. He told me he was so so happy etc. And so was I. I came back home the day after New Year's Day and he text me as usual saying he loved me and I thought everything was fine until he started ignoring me. few days of being ignored and asked him was everything ok, had we moved too fast, should we slow it down? I actually thought something was wrong and messaged his mum to see if he was ok. He told me that it had moved too fast, it had put him off and he was planning on moving to Liverpool. (He lived there for 7 years and moved back to Ireland last Sept) this shocked me big time, I thought we were getting on so well. I organised to collect my clothes from his house and sent him one last message to see if he would change his mind and he said "I want to alone for a while as I'm deciding on moving and for now I want to cut contact as it's for the best"


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  • I was just wondering how you are doing today! I think it's time for you to find a more worthy and emotionally available man.. I'm so sorry this happened to you :(

    • I'm doing ok-ish! I was just wondering what other people's opinions are on this as I still can't get my head around it!! It's so weird. I haven't contacted him since I text him to take care after I collected my things last week and got no reply.

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    • Unbelievable! What a POS

    • Couldn't have put I better myself!!!

  • Hey, I was wondering the other day how you were doing too. It really sucks the situation you're in. One of my best friends is still with her boyfriend (been together six years). They actually broke up three weeks after they started dating, long story, and after three weeks of no contact she went to his house to has the argument out and they've been fine ever since. It is possible, but everyone's story is different. I'm in the exact same boat as you, and I wish I could give advice on how to make it better, but I'm still in the crying phase. Hey, at least you got your stuff back!

    • Least he was mature enough to actually talk to her and have an argument to sort it out! Mines just didn't!! I have good days and bad days. I looked on tinder today for a bit of an ego boost and he's on it again. I was gutted as he said he wanted to be on his own for a while since he's moving away. I'm guessing all hope is lost now completely!!

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    • Every man seems to sorta act the same and act differently if you know what I mean? You can never quite guess what they're going to do. I don't know if the account is still active and he's just not. Suppose I might never know. I'm going no contact for a while to help me get over it. It's just hard especially when things were going quite so well.

    • I know exactly what you mean. Good luck.

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