He broke up with me 3 months ago but we remained civil/friends. We're both young and he just didn't want a girlfriend anymore and that's fair enough I do understand. So we weirdly hinted we want to meet up to have sex and we promised each other there would be no feelings attached as I do want to because I'm attracted to him and I know he is very attracted to me. I don't really feel like he is using me though but I also know we won't get back together so it's not like I'm hoping. I am not that sad about the break up anymore I do just kind of miss him and he feels the same. I just don't see the wrong in it, I don't feel like il get feelings back and cry all over again when it's been 3 months? Will I?
Most Helpful Guy
honestly, I say go for it if both of you want to do it, you can stay friends after this, maybe it will happen more than once0
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly, it is up to you, but most people have friends with benefits. It's not a bad thing, if you know that you're not going to get attached and you feel like you want this to happen and not just the fact that he wants this and you miss him, then just go with it. But don't think you have to do this in order to keep his attention.0
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