So I have this thing going, I been with my boyfriend for almost two years, however our sex at the beginning wasn't too good it was enjoyable but nothing crazy ( he didn't had to much experience) as time passed our sex became more and more enjoyable than before. Recently I found out he was flirting with another girl at his job, anyways apparently she's not into him but he is into her, we spoke but he tells me that he loves me etc so we trying to work things out, I am a very sexual person but I can't show it around him because sometimes I sent him a text message but he doesn't seem to be interested he responds because he knows if he doesn't respond back I'll get upset I don't know what else to do to make him more attractive to me I feel like it's my fault he's interested in another woman. Should I keep going or should I stop and give up? ?
Should I give up or keep trying?
What Guys Said 2
Really? he flirting with other girls after you been together for two years and had lots of sex. He clearly just keeping you along as long as he can because your easy access to sex. SOME GUYS will say anything to garenteed sex so if he said he loves you did you feel like he ment it or did you feel like he said it to say it?1
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What Girls Said 1
If you're at the point of deciding to give up, think about the two years that you spent with him. Was it memorable? Was it full of love? Is it worth fighting for? One night you'll just realize that one thing you'll regret doing is that you didn't give a shot at trying everyday even if it's just 1%/day you know what I mean? Everyday counts girl. Do what you can. Explore! Think out of the box. Good Luck!1
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