So long story short he broke up with me because he didn't want the agg of a girlfriend like the arguments and the hassle. Of course I was broken hearted and yes I do still miss him and in a perfect world we would stil he together, but I respect and understand why he doesn't want a relationship. So 2 months later and we hinted about having sex. I asked him why don't you have it with any other girl? And he said he wants it with me because I'm special and more attractive than any other girl. He promised that he won't just have sex with me then kick me out and forget me forever, and he'd like it to be a more than one time thing (tbh I don't know about that). He also said there's a risk about his feelings coming back :s but he doesn't want that because he wants to be single.
is he using me? Am I an idiot if I agree to have sex with him and be friends with benefits?
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A friends with benefits relationships is a mutual agreement between the two people , so neither should feel used. If you feel used then it's not the type of relationship you should enter into
It seems like he's manipulating you. I'd move on from him0