My ex and I had been together for years then he broke up with me 5 months ago. I didn't really get an explanation and I was left so confuse. Some people think that he might have someone else but it didn't seem that way a month into the break up. This is when I canceled my Facebook account, aim, etc. I just stopped knowing how he's doing. We haven't had any contact since then. Recently my uncle asked if my ex now has a girlfriend and I told him that I don't know. It made me feel that maybe I should. Maybe that would help me dash the silly hope I have of us getting back together, and would help me move on faster. So, does knowing that your ex has someone else or has cheated on you help you move on faster?
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I think personally the only thing that can make you "move on" or "heal" from a break up like that is time.
Yes if they cheated, you know deep down that you should not try getting back with that person because obviously if they loved you like you loved them they would not have cheated on you.
The same thing goes with if they are now dating someone. Knowing that type of information would just confirm that we might not get back together but it would not necessarly help me move on ya know.
I think either way you look at it, only time can help you get over a break up like that.1