Most Helpful Guy
Focus on yourself. Just hit the gym 6 or 7 days a week. Be with friends often. Party. Pick up a new or old hobby. Travel. Spend quality time with family. I am 2 months out from a breakup from a girl I liked a lot but she lost feelings for me. It sucks. I know. But the pain will lessen. Just distract yourself and keep busy. When you think if your ex, practice being mindful of the physiologic effect it has on your body. Like when I saw my ex on snap with other dudes it hurt my chest. Even the thought of her hurts. I pay attention to the pain and then do hw or lift or w. e and it keeps me from thinking of her. Best of luck to you. It is not an easy road but you must keep on keepin on. Your future love is waiting for you.
Most Helpful Girl
If he treated you badly in no way should you ever want to be with him again. You deserve better than that and don't need someone who brings you down. I think right now you are hurt which is normal. If he can treat you bad then he won't treat this other girl good. Try to find things to occupy yourself, you need to move on even though its hard because he was emotionally abusive you said so yourself.